Dark may be difficult the next few weeks, to put it mildly. Obviously, when I go pick up SD and see her puppy, W may be there. If so, polite but detached to her. She also might not be there, which makes the dark oh so much easier. Not sure how much I'll see SD while she's in town. I'm sure she'll spend time with her friends. She'll probably also spend time with her grandparents (my MIL and FIL), so I'm sure I'll see her there.

I also think BIL, his W and kids are coming to visit soon, so W and I may run into each other there. Polite but detached. Polite but detached.

There's also a wedding in 9 days that we're both going to. Groom to be told me yesterday that it's an open bar and that he wants everyone to get their moneys worth. Oh great. I can stay sober. I think W can too. The wedding will be the big test. Polite but detached. Oh, and hitting on a bridesmaid or something crazy


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011