I do have one Q though. I plan on moving out in Aug. For now we are sleeping in the same bed. I'm wondering if that should continue.
It's a good question.
Is it a problem right now? If there is a problem, by all means change something.
However, I get the idea that you might be doing this to have you and her grown accustomed to it.
Maybe?
OR worse, that by doing this it might wake her up...and worse only because of that hope attached to it.
I see a seperation as an eye opening experience...good and bad. (Somethings I grew accustomed to doing when seperated I brought along with me when we got back together. Just as my wife did.)
Sort of like getting hit in the face with a Large mouth bass.
Why would you want to prep that with her getting used to it with goldfish?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
