I Had surgery so can't post for long. (I'm fine & grateful, but very sore/tired and a big buzzed)
Originally Posted By: OneLessWife
KD thanks for responding...yes I am still angry about giving money to her What does this ^^^^ mean? The court ordered amount? No point in being angry about that. You had a L or you could have. I think it's better that the check goes automatically into her account, which I think will be happening right?) You won't have to deal with her or writing a check after this, right?
even though I talk at great lenth with my C about this......So another Roller Coaster starts....
Explain this^^^...
Even going dark...even trying to detach...why do I let her suck me back in....I did however block her phone number and sent her an email...telling her not to text or call.. I would prefer an email....the money issue is done....the visitation is done....she can have anyone of my teenagers call me in a emergency. Til I know what this means ^^^^ I can't respond but I hope you do not mean that you are cutting contact with your kids off. That's a mistake which will confirm the negatives She has about you and makes you look bad in every way possible. And surely it must make YOU wonder about the changes you say you made. Cutting your kids off is the act of a bitter desparate man. So let me know what this means.
...Don't know if this was good or bad.... Well you know how I feel if it's the kids getting the cold shoulder from you.
But being dark even though I think about her.....is easier than talking to her....I read on a post here that a husband liked and loved talking or fighting with his WAW...it made him still feel connected.....17 months and I am just about over it....Not quite but just...now for the 2x4's Sandi and 25 where are you..
Explain your course of action and what it means, and we can address this better.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
