I've had a rough week emotionaly this week but a response is in order I think.
You don't know and you might never know. If I was to put my mind-reading helmet on she probably feels twinges of guilt and to alleviate some of that guilt she is doing THIS to "feel" better.
She also might be doing this because she WANTS to talk to you. She could be doing this to get under your skin. Hell, she could be doing this because she lost a bet or she was dared. My point is your divorced, separate States, and NOT together...you don't have to do anything.
I have heard from you where you stand on this and how you will continue to move forward without her. How can you move forward if you still feel obligated to respond?
If you decide you have to respond, well then harness your irritation first and make it brief; and do not open to additional conversation. She needs to feel your loss. If she knows she can talk to you all the time, then she will not have the opportunity to look within. She needs to understand YOU are NOT there.
