Sorry for the laspe in posting, I have been in a wierd place latley. I wanted to pose a question here to the vets that's been non my mind...My STBXW stays pretty much angry at me all the time. I have been doing the NC for a while now....I was at home and got a call from W, she always asks me do I have time to talk...That is code for blasting me....anyway I asked her in a calm voice...Wife I have not spoken or texted you in over a week what could I have possibly done.....Anyway she began to rehash stuff that happened many years ago....I finally told her that enough is enough...I am giving you your D so what makes this all revelant.....So here is my question is it possible that a WAS stay's angry enough to not want to identify her side of the puzzle and does this anger let her justify the course of action....She just opened up her own checking account and my support/retirement check will be directly deposited into her account that I have no control over...(remember she told me that she feels trapped with me being intertwined in her life)...anyhow the first check has to come in a check form....then the rest go directly....So yesterday she called me and I told her that I got the check in the mail....I don't get home until after 7pm...(all banks are closed).....so this morning she called and bitched at me for not putting the money in the bank last night....I got angry and yelled at her asking her why is she so stupid to ask me that when I have no access whatsoever to her bank account.....This is what she wanted....So my above question stands....I am just venting a bit...but wanted to know if anyone has ran across this type of issue...with WAS.
