no "helping him deal with OW or her son"...

be upbeat about YOUR LIFE and YOUR FUTURE....

contrast the person you WERE with who you are becoming...

be independent, smart, interestED and interestING but kind of busy with your new life

you have had an awakening, etc...

read the rules over & over before he gets there and come up with some specific things to say

IF he says something or asks you something and you think the answer matters BUT

you are not sure how to answer, THEN DON'T...just listen & listen

and tell him you'll have to "process" that before replying


and accept his FINANCIAL help if he offers...

you deserve it and he knows it.

Stop buying into what a piece of crap you fear you are.

You deserve better


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change