Ex-P is coming here tomorrow to pick up stuff and we have to go to the bank together. Does anyone have any last minute advice on what I should do/how I should act???

Can I ask him to step outside if he has to take a call from OW? I just don't feel I can hear it.

Its been many weeks since I've seen him face to face. I am afraid of crumbling after he leaves. I'm dreading seeing his "anti-hussy" ring - but at the same time, I just want to laugh at what a possessive freak the OW is!

Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011