Well she randomly started texting me again about the separation/divorce. I really don't understand why I figure everything that needs to be said has been said concerning that. I guess she doesn't have it in her to come actually talk to me about it. Not like there is a different answer here or anything. I told her if a divorce is what she really wants I won't deny it. I want to save our marriage and at this point if that is what she really wants I can't help her anymore. I have to somehow prepare myself to move on with her