Starsky, I can understand that. We have a divorce in the court system. God doesn't recognize man's divorce. In the Old Testament, divorces were granted within their "church". I am still standing for my "marriage" that was blessed by God.

I am extremely protective over my children. But then again, my children are much older than yours. As they get older, there is less you can really do to "protect" them from people who would harm them emotionally. You become someone who offers advice if they are willing to listen.

They are of the age that they can decide where they want to live and when and the court system supports it. There isn't a lot I can actually do except be patient and loving.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God