Thanks for your response Seeking. It is difficult for me to detach from my H when he acts this way towards me. Its almost "as if" we are together. We are a family.
When he hugged me last night, S3 came over and hugged us too - group hug . It was such a beautiful moment but sad too. I really dont understand how anybody can act this way towards his family. Be loving and kind and generous and then walk away, sleep with OW and not contact for days on end.
I know I have to keep the road home paved and smooth but I have to be honest and say that it is just as difficult when your H is loving towards you, as it is if your H is full of hate and spewing venom. Infact I almost wish he did hate me. It would be easier to hate and detach in return. But here I am full of love for a man who is with OW.
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
. It was such a beautiful moment but sad too. I really dont understand how anybody can act this way towards his family. Be loving and kind and generous and then walk away, sleep with OW and not contact for days on end. 
