I want you guys to know that I really do consider all of the advice that I receive here. But I understand why it seems that I will do what I'm going to do anyway. Ultimately, I am going to do what I think is best, that is true. But I do look for views on things that I may not be seeing.
With the anniversary text, I did, and do, see the viewpoint that it was pursuing behavior. I'm sure that it was.
Was it a tactical error?
Only if you believe in Michele's teachings.
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But I also know that I'm going to continue to get beat up for not backing away and letting W pursue.
I think that I will move more in the direction that some of you are encouraging to move if July passes and there is no significant improvement in my sitch and/or W doesn't move significantly closer to committing to R the M.
I see. So you're intentionally NOT going to do what DB teaches, and what nearly EVERYONE is advising you to do, during this, THE SINGLE MOST CRUCIAL MONTH IN YOUR ENTIRE ORDEAL, but then, if/when that doesn't work and your marriage is possibly over, THEN you might consider following the book.
