Very very well said 25...

I would add...

Questions...

While I am great at asking them and searching for answers...

Is often futile and the real truth is you don't always need them...

When my niece was born extremly prematurly, I asked why...

Why did it happen, why were they able to save her (shouldn't have)...

Thirteen years later...it doesn't matter...unless you were there, you never would even know she was 3 pounds at birth...

If you need the answers...

they will come...

when it is time for them to come...

it has nothing to do with being reconciled or divorced...

it is simply life.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox