I get it. Your W said she was committed and she wanted to work on things. Now you want her to show you some action. Words without action are well...just words.
You are really look at this as a big action form her and shows that commitment.
I'm kinda in the same spot. My W said she would see an IC. she got the referral. I finally asked her today, "like I was just curious if you made the appt yet."
I think there are ways to bring it up without coming off badly.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.