As for her 'babysteps' do they all have to happen? Do they all have to happen in a set time frame? Or will you be ok with one of them?
As for the one about her setting an appointment.
You said she was never good at making good on her word in matters like this. Right?
Well my wife is never on time. This concept of time doesn't seem to exist in her kind some sort of foreign concept like theoretical math. Never has. Likely never will, if she does? I'll be looking for angels blowing trumpets and breaking seals.
If I used her being on time as an example of a babystep?
I'd first have to change the name babystep into something like Godzilla step.
And I'd be setting her up to fail.
Some spots do not change, they may fade... but somethings are too fundamentally instilled.
You know?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK