You know what's noodling my noodle right now? What if she doesn't schedule the counseling? What do I do and when? For years, I've had issues with her not doing what she said she'd do. One week ago tomorrow, she said she'd do it. Then Friday she said she'd email some people for references over the weekend (I don't know if she did or did not do that - I haven't asked and don't plan on it).
So, best case she has made progress but doesn't have options for me yet. Worst case she hasn't done anything. If it were me, I would have been done 10 minutes after I said I'd do it. It is possible she's testing my patience. She has said several times that I need to be patient.
What if another week goes by? Do I say something? Let it go until she does it? Just don't know....
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