I need to get back to setting goals for my baby steps. I got away from that and now I think they are as (if not more) important than ever....
So, for me:
* Keep doing what worked. * Let W come to me. * Stay busy * Practice my patience * Don't Don't Don't fall back into neediness
Baby Steps that I'm looking for from her:
* She'll call me or text me when there's no real reason * She'll schedule counseling (tomorrow will be 1 week since she said she would do it, but as of yet has not...) * She'll schedule time together (with or without kids) that wasn't on the "normal" schedule
That's it, just would like to start to see some of those....
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