I need to get back to setting goals for my baby steps. I got away from that and now I think they are as (if not more) important than ever....

So, for me:

* Keep doing what worked.
* Let W come to me.
* Stay busy
* Practice my patience
* Don't Don't Don't fall back into neediness


Baby Steps that I'm looking for from her:

* She'll call me or text me when there's no real reason
* She'll schedule counseling (tomorrow will be 1 week since she said she would do it, but as of yet has not...)
* She'll schedule time together (with or without kids) that wasn't on the "normal" schedule

That's it, just would like to start to see some of those....


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11