At times like this, I hate the 'rules' too. I used to rebel against them myself, but in order to post, I towed the line. I understand why they are there.
Although at one point in time the rules were much more lax.
You'd might notice that in my very first thread.
In what you are going through Harrier, hope, still has its place. Hope is a fickle thing though, or rather the after effects. There is nothing wrong with 'hope' inheritently. It's like a child. Untempered? It will destroy your house as it runs rampant. Raised with values and it will enrich your world.
As strange as this may sound Harrier and X, I think that pieicng has a better chance of succeeding when both spouses are...uncertain and wary.
A leap of faith. If both of you took it, you might be surprised.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
