That's what I'm figuring that it's something else. I have no idea what though because she's not telling me. She has a lot of self esteem issues and not feeling good enough for anyone. That may even be the root cause. She said she's been unhappy for awhile and I said if you don't tell me we can't fix it.

When we were arguing earlier she said she wasn't willing to work on it and she doesn't want to fix it. blah blah blah. Which is part of DB'ing basically working on yourself I guess

Right now I'm just thinking of just not even talking to her. Way she's going right now there's no way she wants anything to do with me.