ok... i'm kinda getting she's a little angry...

I agree that you should be talking to her about the kids, although I would guess that you do and will talk to her about this stuff.

While I am sure she wants to get it figured out as soon as possible, a day or two is not going to matter. That's my opinion, of course.

Fine line here, but don't NOT call her as a means of controlling her. If you're busy with more pressing matters, get to it as soon as you can.

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Sounds like she's got some anger issues she has to work out...