I understand how you must have felt coming back, to find the woman you love willing to talk about the two of you, possibly working things out and getting back together, even considering having gone through the D process.
And then the joy you must have felt that she moves back in, once again re-uniting your family.
Harsh? Perhaps. Obviously she was not ready and was hoping to just get comfortable again. The romance and honeymoon again.
If you want, let her know that while you appreciate the talks and that she was willing to move in, that you understand that things moved a little too quick and if anything is going to happen again, it really needs to be taken slowly...
Hope that helps. I feel for you. Try to stay off the roller coaster.
