Right now I still want the marriage to work but she seems pretty determined to try to destroy me. At this moment I don't really know what my strategy is. I did one thing against what it said and got sucked into an argument with her. Gees did we have quite the argument. She's saying we never got out. I was saying we couldn't because when asked she would say she didn't want to go anywhere. From what she's telling me that's what it's all about. Seems stupid to me honestly