All that is fine, but you know what the key was? I really, honestly, got the point where I knew I'd be ok either way. How many times have you read that here? I'd seen it a million times and I'd tried it before, but just as you said something snapped in you last night, it snapped in me one night too, but a different snap. I would be ok no matter what.
Once that happened, my whole attitude changed. And very quickly so did she.
Don't know if that'll happen for you. Don't even know if it'll continue to happen for me, but those are the facts.
Harrier, I thought I would chime in and let you know that this has recently happened for me to. One day as I was playing with the kids in the park I started to notice most of the woman were checking me out and how I was interacting with my kids. After chatting with a few it came to me that no matter what happens with my W I was going to be ok. From that day on my attitude changed as well and so has my W's for the better. My sitch still has a ways to go and we all share the same goal to R our M. But to be honest if my W packed up and left me and the kids tomorrow it wouldn't be close to as bad as I might have thought it was a year ago.
Really focusing on my own inner work and the relationship with my kids and not worrying what my W is thinking or wondering is what has gotten to me to this point.
I've also realized that i've turned into a really great catch and whoever wants to be with me I will make them very happy. And so will you.
There is a difference between knowing the path & walking the path. – Morpheus
