It has been some time since I last posted. Here is the quick synopsis on what has happened in my life. Last June I deployed overseas for a year. Within a couple of months, I got the "I can't do this anymore" speach. After some time, I finally agreed to just give her the divorce she wanted. We were divorced on 31DEC. I got custody of my son and she got custody of my daughter. I didn't get home from my deployment until 1June.
Since I have been home, the ex and I have been talking. After a couple of weeks of talking, she moved back in. Less than a week after moving back in, she now says that she does not know if she is ready and is now miving her stuff back out. Needless to say, this is killing me emotionally.
What should be my next move? How should I be handling this? I am just afraid of re-living all of those bad feelings I had when the divorce happened the first time. The rational side of me is saying that this is best if she is not ready. I am also feeling like this was just a weak attempt so she can at least say that she tried. This is so confusiong, so any input would be appreciated.
Me:33 W: 31 M: 8 T: 13 S: 6 D: 8 months The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done" http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2048765&page=1
