You know what my W said to me last night? Stung like crazy but I think it's helped. She told me how many people have commented to her how much happier she seems since I moved out. Wow. Way not easy to hear that!
BOTH of our attitudes had to change. I was clingy and needy. I took her crap because I didn't want to have a fight. She was pissed and angry and didn't want to spend time with me.
We both got space. I got my manliness back. She got rid of some anger. It has helped a ton.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11