I didn't give you my thoughts prior, because I have learned that you always do what you want to anyway...
I am wondering though...
Do you want your M back or not?
You pursued. You expected. You got your feelings hurt...
I can see you now taking her FB comment and running with it in your head...
"she wasn't thinking about me...what does that mean...is she going to want to reconcile...is she having too much fun without me to do that..." and on and on and on...
I go out without BF and have a GREAT time sometimes, especially if I am with a few girlfriends...
Doesn't mean that I love him any less...
Doesn't mean I am going to leave him...
Doesn't mean anything other than I had a wonderful time and had some fun...
And even if I don't tell him, doesn't mean I didn't miss him or think about him, or wish he was there...
Personally, I would have gone with something much much simpler...
There is a thread in MLC, I think it is listed in the resourses, if not look up Cadet and it is in one of his welcome posts...
called Pursuit VS Distance or something very similar...
Read it...over and over and over...
Especially with this month of spending time together coming up...
This is where you are going to make it or break it with your actions and words (and probably the words, in your head more than anything, will kill you if you aren't careful...)
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
