Yes, I heard the same thing regarding being connected to the kids. I never gloated that I was always there with the kids, whether at home or events, or whatever.
My W has blocked or re-written history regarding all the financial that I DID contribute to the family. Everything I earned (as profit) went back to the family, to pay bills, etc. She contributed to mortgage and social costs, I paid pretty much everything else for most of that time. She has told me many times in the past year that I contributed little to nothing. *sigh*
That's neither here nor there. If that's what she wants to believe, I can't change her mind. Even if I showed her all the receipts.
My W also said the kids will be fine... Not based on results of the last eight months. They are not fine and the last episode with D8, she finally agreed that the kids might need counseling. She has a plan that would cover that. That was 2 months ago. The kids are still not in counseling.
So. Having said that...
Where are you at? What's your game plan now? What are you going to work on, for you?
