Taking off the ring was the right choice and opinions vary..I thought I would keep in on, but realized I have the right to change my mind it was for me not her. For me, it's another way of letting w go moving on with my journey. My focus in on myself and the kids. And, with everything on the table, going dark is the order for now.
Faith, I really surprised myself by taking it off-never imagined I would. They say the best way to heal my marriage is to GAL for me and imagine and live life as if w is not in the picture, who knows, man. It still [censored].