DG, it's pretty remarkable to read your latest post and look back to where you were a few months ago. As they say, "you've come a long way, baby."
Like you, I've had a difficult time detaching and not snooping; with my W still in the house and involved in her EA, it's been very tough. But every time I find some evidence of her nonsense, I feel worse than before. And like others have said, what do I do with that evidence? We both know she's involved in an EA; it's not news.
Snooping is another form of trying to control someone, or something, that is completely out of your control. It has no benefit, and only makes a very bad situation that much worse.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
