Just read up on my old thread, wanted to check the date that H and I ML. And the advice I received was not to allow this to happen. Basically it's cake eating. And if I allow it then H won't feel that he has to make a decision.

H has sent a few more texts. I have not replied and i will not. It might make him mad but then that's his problem.

Can anyone give me any advice on how to deal with a flirty H? Without bringing up OW that is.

W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11