Long sleepless night....found out my wife has been lying to me. My wife sent me a text yesterday saying I'm not going to be over today I'm staying at (friends name)...so I went to visit my BIL since she wasn't going to be there. I park my car across the street from his house in a parking lot because of the way his street is. So anyways I'm sitting over there and guess who's pulls up....and there's a guy driving her....She doesn't know I saw the guy out there...yet....she came in saying her friend brought her by to get some clothes...I badly want to confront her about this. I told my BIL what he saw and he sincerely didn't know. He said she pays rent there so he doesn't ask what she's doing or where she's going. He said the only thing he's told her about all this is that if she's sleeping with anyone or thinking of sleeping with anyone don't do it till this divorce is final. I believe him he's always been pretty straight with me. He said he told her that I would never forgive her if she was when we separated....