My text: "Hey! I just want to acknoweldge our anniversary today. It will always be a special day to me. I will never regret asking you to marry me on New Year's Eve in 2008. That is the most tender and loving memory of my life. And I will never regret marrying you on this day. The smartest thing that I have ever done. I hope that you are enjoying your time to yourself and that you have a great time in Philly. Please tell GF1 and GF2 hello for me. Me."
W responded about 2 hours later: "thank you. That was nice of you. I'm so tired and delerious so I apologize for my late response."
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Denver, you will do what you want 99% of the time regardless of what anyone recommends. That's ok btw. I did the same thing and I figure everyone else would too given the sitch. It's hard being in your shoes. I do know.
However, now that you have surpassed this anniversary. I strongly suggest you grab your nuts and give a good solid squeeze and MOVE THE OPPOSITE direction. Your gesture and commitment is evident, but how you worded it was a pursuing sad sack. In my opinion you are pursuing her, she had every opportunity you did to wish you a happy anniversary too, but she didn't. She will NOT either.
Quit pursuing! Let her be the one to come to you.
Nice gesture, but you could have saved the sappy stuff and just said "Happy Anniversary" and nothing else.
Why do I say this? well.....
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
Later, she posted a few photos of herself and her girlfriends together in Philly. She included comments about how much fun she was having and "I'm so happy!" ...
It made me a little sad that she wasn't thinking of me... but that is just selfish thinking...
Do you see where you are?
Man, I'm not going to kick you in the cowboys, but for God sake, STOP NOW! Back away. Give her her freedom and become mysterious. If you follow any piece of advice right now... BACK THE F OFF. Let her come to you and don't you make another move towards her until she gives you a reason to. SPACE SPACE SPACE! TIME TIME TIME. If you channel your energy to what makes Denver happy...picture the past 30 days...and continue moving away, she WILL follow. AND NO IT ISN'T JULY yet in AK.
Same old controlling ways Denver? I don't know. Only you can answer that.
I hope that you are enjoying your time to yourself and that you have a great time in Philly. Please tell GF1 and GF2 hello for me. Me."
