Hey DG. Just reading your thread here. Don't beat yourself up too much for snooping. I've done it too (obviously). However, very rarely does anything good come of it...
Unless...
You find OP sitting on your S's toilet and it leads him/her to ending that R.
LOL!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce