180s? Mostly just me attitude toward life. I listen more. Actually worry a lot less about money and the future. These were major issues for me. Getting kicked in the nuts gets your attention. Kind of put things in perspective in a major way. For now, just maintaining a postive outlook, being their 110% for my kids, and not concerning myself with what and with whom my W is up to are enough for me. I actually am enjoying me time alone more and more. I do get out, but I increasely crave this "me time".
One day at a time. I am so lucky on so many levels. Great kids, good friends, great career, company and employees, great income (even after paying spousal support). Really, what do I have to complain about? Not one thing, that's for sure. I W left me? I have shed my tears, but must put that aside. I miss her, yes. But I believe I would have been crushed by most of the adversity I read about on this board, and I have the utmost respect for all who are brave enought to post here.
