I am so sorry for what you are going through. I lost my mom 3 years ago to lung cancer, and it [censored]. But if there is any silver lining in this, you actually have a great excuse not to concentrate on your wife and marriage, as your mom needs you now more than ever. Take this opportunity to help her and it will help you as well. I believe God gives us all these tests as opportunities as well. I think in my situation, I needed to GAL, as well as teach my children the true meaning and power of love and understanding. There is no doubt this time will be brutally difficult for you, but trust that the time you get with your mom is a gift, albeit wrapped in crappy paper.
