I do notice that you are saying when you find no evidence, you do NOT feel guilt for checking up...
???
What if you found out that your H has been snooping on you... and found a number he didn't recognize... so now... he's assumed your in an A and are simply trying to coerce him... or some such...
How would that feel? Would you be angry? Would you expect him to feel guilty for even considering that? Would you GUILT him for doing that?
Just wondering...
I can't say for sure how I would feel if I found out he was snooping on me. I know I don't have anything to hide so as far as I am concerned, he can snoop away.
I can't describe how I feel when I don't find anything. Relief mostly, and then angry with myself for acting so childish and being a stalker. It makes me feel like a hypocrite.
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