New - HELP! Tried the 180/Last Resort & Failed

[25yearsmlc]

you seem to be helping him in his new life. And helping him with the relationships. WHY HELP HIM WITH OW'S SON??



You want to be his buddy AND pretend to have amnesia about a long term R you two had? Why?

It's as if you are both in denial, so he's off the hook AND he has all the power.

All I can say is that it is NOT part of ANY DB

approach I know of.

Your behavior really puzzles me.

Clearly you aren't showing him your GAL

or that you might be attractED to

or attractING to, OM....


You are ignoring the advice we are giving you when it comes to him.

I am in a rush now

so can't post more but I don't think you are going to get anywhere good with this "approach"...sorry.

I know you are in a lot of pain but if you harken back to your youth, you probably had the same fears then that you have now.

THings DO and WILL get better. NOT b/c someone else rescues you

but b/c you rescue yourself.

At some level, we all have to do it.

hang in there