You know I have struggled with detaching and obsessing about my wife. when I do manage it, I feel so much better as I am in control of my life and my happiness.
Every time you focus more on him than you , you are empowering him and preventing yourself from moving on with your life. Look DG, we all know how much you love him and how difficult it is to truly detach , but it is essential. I am finally feeling good and I mean its real. It took a long time and I will probably back slide again but the valleys get further and further apart and then I think you will just feel good, period and realize.
Hey, I once lived a life without her/him and i was fine. My last few years were not great because of our relationship so maybe I can do this again and find some happines with or without them.
Make it happen DG, just do it one minute at a time. Im pulling for you Sweetie cause you deserve it.
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