Trust me DG, I understand. Every time I talk to my sister, she is convinced my w met someone. That could be the only reason why she would pretty much completely cut off contact with me after 10 yrs.
And you know what.. she may be. But I told her when we separated that I wouldn't look through her stuff. (It would be so easy, I know all the passwords). I've been so tempted. God knows it's so hard when you never saw the bomb coming to not try to protect yourself from ANOTHER bomb. For me, its not about trusting her really. It's about being someone I want to be. I want to keep my promises. I want to live my life in a positive way w/o worrying when another action she does will hurt me.. Plus if she looked at my stuff, I'd be p!ssed.
Hug... You've looked, now stop it! Whatever your spouse does.. he does. But take the higher road on this. Don't put yourself in situations where you can hurt yourself.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
