Holding, Hopeful, but Realistic

[Jack_Three_Beans]

You're wordy. I like that.

I'll make this short, if its a trick, duplicitious, she'll have every right to be mad when you stop doing it and fall back into old habits.

If it's for you, with the benefit of being something she wants, then you are less likely to fall back into old habits.

It's cake, I'll have it and eat it, whats the point of just having it? : ) Never understood that one.