I was just about to make the same comment J3B made.
Who are these changes for? And before you shoot off a quick answer....raise your right hand and repeat after me...I solemly swear...... just kidding.
One other thing I noticed in your thread MLC...
Timeline....
You listed a timeline and also implied rather posted that if she moved on...then YOU would.
IMO, that is reactive...not proactive. IMO, that is not making a choice for YOU based on YOU.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans