No Contact I suppose could mean just not interacting with the spouse, but I always viewed it as removing myself from the drama, which included...snooping.
I always viewed it as protecting my state of mind.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK