Piecing my marriage back together again.

[Denver_2010]

Herb, I'd say now's the time to do the real work.

I concur that having the two of you here, working your lives out in your own threads, was quite amazing.

Unfortunately, it gave both of you an opportunity to snoop on each other. And while I don't know how that worked for your W, I'd like to ask...

How's that working for you?

I mean this with no disrespect whatsoever, but the game is over.

You are being DB'd and your W has gone dark. That's an LRT, if you remember...

My experience of you is you are a man of deep convictions and deep love.

And you've messed up a couple times...

So...

What are you doing for you? What are some of your 180s? How do you intend to be a man that only a fool would leave?

Herb - Bond and 25 are just trying to be real with you and trying to help you. It may seem harsh, but what they are saying is very true.

You have to STOP making excuses and just do it. Take control of YOUR life and stop making these mistakes...

You ARE very lucky that Talk is even considering working on your M... Don't let this opportunity fall away... you very well may regret it.

I can tell you from personal experience, as bad as things may seem now, you will feel much, much worse... even desperate... if Talk gets to the point where she is D-O-N-E and no longer has any desire to work on the M... if she gets to the point where she is moving on without you.

Be careful here man... that's all I am saying. Kaffe is absolutely right... now is the time to really start being an adult and begin working here.

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Denver