CTH, I keep thinking of this: My worry is the opposite of what you are saying. I worry if I don't actively get out there and look I'll just melt into a life of work, working out, kids ...
What's wrong with that? What is wrong with just 'melting' for awhile? I know I offer the opposite opinion from many on here, but I still think you need to be cautious about jumping right back in; regardless of whethere you are/were "done" or not. IMHO
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10