CTH,
I keep thinking of this:
My worry is the opposite of what you are saying. I worry if I don't actively get out there and look I'll just melt into a life of work, working out, kids ...

What's wrong with that? What is wrong with just 'melting' for awhile?
I know I offer the opposite opinion from many on here, but I still think you need to be cautious about jumping right back in; regardless of whethere you are/were "done" or not.
IMHO


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B