Just bumping - any thoughts on how to let H know I find him desirable and attractive (one of his big needs, if not the biggest) when we are not being intimate. I need not find a non-guilt inducing, non-awkward verbal way to do it but am having a hard time with it.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11
