I agree. You definitely aren't in piecing yet. However, you are at a critical junction as to what your H wants. He lost the OW, so he's got a hole to fill. You have a chance to fill that hole. Slowly. Rebuild that friendship that you had together with no expectations.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.