Cyrena, Its amazing how alike our sitches are. Just goes to show that for certain types of personalities, what happens to them is all scripted. I think the effort to make OW into a friend is to prove to themselves that they are not infidels, as you once said, to maintain their honourable image of themselves.
Yes, I am congratulating myself. For the past few days, I have been thinking of how I am back to being myself again at work, being productive, not thinking of my sitch, not pityingmyself. I hope it stays this way.
H is back today and I am hoping and praying for good times.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go