Preparing For Big D & STILL Here

[2stepboogie]

Much better BTM. I would have not sent this:

because I understand it will bring closure to you and all of us to have the divorce finalized. I'm glad we are not arguing over money like others do.

But it is just a small thing.

All these years later, and I still have not really changed. I have only made surface changes that I thought I needed. Not the ones I really truly needed to make. I have so far to go yet.

I believe real change can only occur when several things happen.

1. You are honest with yourself

2. You forgive yourself

3. You let go completely

4. You put love in your heart and accept things for what they are without blame or guilt

5. You seek first to understand, and then to be understood