DG, I have asked myself the same questions. I have not had contact in over a month, well there was an aberrant text message meant to be a FB post, but that was not directed at me. It is as if STBXW fell off the face, or was actually abducted by aliens shocked. The lack of distractions has permitted me to focus on me.

We have to do what is best for each of us according to each of our situations.

What ever the outcome it’ll be over when you decide it is over. Do not assume it is over.

You have value. Your happiness is yours to control. Do not depend on what someone else decides or does for it

Reading into the drama is a waste as it expends energy you need to move forward, to heal you. Break your plan up into smaller bites. Evaluate facts to determine if you’re making progress and adjust as necessary.

Back in the day, before lasers and GPS we watched where the impact occurred and adjusted to target. The measure of a crews performance was determined by how little adjustment was needed. That was very dependant on factual information about each variable in the firing solution. It is the same principal here, but I digress.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill