Fool me once, Shame on ME

[ninelives]

UPDATE:

I have been talking with a few girls and dating and trying to find my place in this mess.

Last night I went over to this one girl that I was conversing with for a few months and coach soccer against her.

She has a nice place overlooking the water, she is a hard worker and so outdoorsy, so differnt then my wife who is a girly girl.

We had dinner, people kept dropping in for a beer and we had so much company. My bikes' battery died so I was stranded at her place till after midnight.

I had a couple of glasses of wine for the first time in my life and actually liked it. To make a long story short, it happened and it was very nice. So unexpected for both of us.

She has a daughter that is away for a month. Our ages are a bit of a concern as she is 33 and I am 47 but she did make a comment that I looked good for an Old man. I am probably close to the best shape I have been in my life.

Anyway, It helped me get a different perspective on my wife. She infact is NOT the only one out there and there is potential for happiness.

I do understand that I may be rebounding but she is such a unique girl that we at least have the summer to look forward to.

She too just got out of a relationship recently and was lonely.

Take it slow and honest and just see where this goes. I was never one to just sit back , I have been apart from my W since NOveember but she has been cheating no me for almost two years so there is that to consider.

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