The BIG D and its Path of Destruction

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Why? And How so? I mean is it b/c you are angered? That's not a good reason.

Is it b/c you think this means she would have used any means to hurt you AND

Would she show this

since she'd have the kids, "9/10 of the law is possession"?

Just asking you to think about it.

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Honestly 25, I am not angry about what she said. What she said did not hurt as much as it surprised me. I know in my heart that my dad would be “very” proud of what I am doing and the way I’ve handled myself.

As for my W, I have genuine concern for her. As long as I have known her and been with her, I have never seen this type of behavior. I don't believe that she would intentionally try to hurt me.

The reason I said that it confirms my decision, is because if she is behaving this way………..how can I not protect my kids from what she might put them through? In my mind, as long as they are with me, my W can’t drag them through whatever she is going through.

Also, if she thinks her life was difficult while we were raising our kids together. She will find that having to care for her mother and 2 very active kids by herself is no walk in the park. I’m afraid that the stress might be too much for her. She ran from what I feel was a decent life, not perfect, decent. I don’t know what she will do when the reality sets in that she made her life much more difficult.

I suppose we can call it damage control, because my kids are going to get hurt no matter what.

I know that I made the right decision.